I’ve been working with clients about not being part of the herd; of not baa-ing along with everyone else when it’s not your song. When it’s not in line with your ethics, values, beliefs and godam heart!
Yes but…. yes but…. yes but! There is always gonna be a ‘yes…but’ when you don’t live in line with your passion. When you capitulate because it’s ‘hard’. As this wise old guy, Seneca, once said…
Face it straight on. Work out what action you CAN take to deal with/improve the situation… And DO IT!
As the saying goes, taking action stimulates all kinds of resources and opportunities to come towards you that might otherwise not have occurred. Read more…
This video is guaranteed to so shake your fandango you’re gonna have to see things a little differently…. even if just for a nano-second! Stick with it, even if you don’t agree with all the frames.
Grab your love and your courage with both hands, woman. Then tell me… What’s one thing YOU can start doing TODAY to bring in the Way?
How we love our excuses!
Who me? Not qualified-courageous-influential-able/good-enough!
What if they don’t listen? I don’t have the authority-articulateness-presence-respect.
Can’t you find some-one else? I’m too quiet-loud-shy-fierce-strong-weak.
I entered a competition for big big prizes. Only I bombed… didn’t even make the top ten!
Did I feel sore! But I recognized those feelings from early painful childhood experiences around ‘competition’. For the first time in more decades than I want to own up to, I’d felt competitive about this event. And, whaddayerknow… history repeated itself!
I explored how come I didn’t make it. And critiquing what I delivered compared with the top 10 gave me loads of learning learning learning.
I realised I’d been trying to play somebody else’s game… an Alpha Male one actually… rather than my own. That hit with a gut wrenching thud. I’d been stuck in ‘Good girl’, a part of my personality which tries to please. No wonder I’d felt out of sorts and disconnected from myself for days. Read more…
Eyes blur with tears as I lean oh so gently into my compelling cause; my tender-golden-hearted-full vision.
Every woman to know who she is and what she has to offer the world. Every woman living in line with her passion and her natural confidence. With her natural self belief, wisdom and courage.
Every woman a beacon of sanity in this mad mad world with raving gun toting maniacs. With inter-personal-tribal-racial-cultural-national hatred splashing viciously across our screens… and deeply into our very cells. Read more…